Technology’s Impact on the Self

The Many Faces of Technology’s Impact on the Self: Emotions, Mind, Mental Health & Spirit

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Written by Syed Sadiq Ali

September 21, 2025

The Many Faces of Technology’s Impact on the Self: Emotions, Mind, Mental Health & Spirit

Technology touches almost every part of life. From social media and smartphones to AI, virtual reality, online learning, and wearable tech — these tools bring enormous benefits. But they also affect us in ways we’re still trying to fully understand. Below are what research tells us so far about how technology shapes our emotional life, psyche, mental health, and spiritual being — both the positives and the risks.


Emotional Impact

1. Altered Emotional Experience via Mediated Interactions

  • A study using a daily–diary design (college‐aged participants) comparing in-person, video, phone, and text interactions found that less “life-like” interactions (text, phone) led to less positive affect and more negative affect. Participants reported feeling lonelier, sadder, less affectionate, less supported, and less happy after text or phone chats vs in-person. PubMed
  • Emotional distancing, misinterpretation, or lack of nuance in non-face-to-face communication can heighten misunderstandings, reduce empathy, and increase emotional exhaustion in some contexts.

2. Digital Overuse, Addictive Patterns & Emotional Distress

  • Among children during COVID-19 lockdowns, overuse of technology (smartphones, internet) was associated with worse sleep, cognitive disruption, anxiety, depression, and increased risk for emotional disorders. PubMed
  • In Pakistani youth, greater consumption of Information Technology (IT) was found to correlate significantly with higher anxiety. Psychiatry Health Journal
  • Children who report addictive online behaviour suffer worse mental health outcomes—higher rates of depressive thoughts, suicidal ideation, etc. Financial Times

Psychological / Mental Health Effects

1. Anxiety, Depression, Stress & Technostress

  • Digital technologies have been used to improve mental health in many studies (especially during COVID-19), returning positive effects on depression, anxiety, and overall emotional well-being. BioMed Central
  • But they can also increase stress: “technostress” refers to stress due to overload from constant connectivity, information overload, and expectations of immediate response. A recent study “Spiritual Intelligence’s Role in Reducing Technostress” argues that cultivating spiritual intelligence can help buffer these negative effects. arXiv

2. Cognitive & Developmental Impacts, Especially in Children

  • Overuse in children is linked to sleep disruption, impaired attention, altered brain‐functioning, and potential for ADHD, depression, anxiety. PubMed
  • Emotional regulation skills may lag when children spend a lot of time in digital environments without sufficient guidance. The study “Challenges and Effects of Technology in Emotional and Psychological Development of Children” shows that uncontrolled tech use can harm children’s ability to regulate emotions, form healthy social relationships, and develop interpersonal communication skills. STAIN UPWR E-Journal

Spiritual Effects

“Spiritual” here refers to meaning-making, values, sense of purpose, connection to something bigger than oneself (religion for some, existential or philosophical for others).

1. Virtual / Digital Faith & Religious Practice

  • A study “Sustaining Digital Faith: How Technology Impacts Religious Activities” examines how digital platforms (streaming worship, online religious communities) have reshaped practice and engagement. There’s greater access and opportunity but risks include loss of “authenticity” and more distractions. birjournal.com
  • Likewise, “Tinkering with Technology and Religion…” (Paul K. McClure) shows that Internet use is associated with increased religious non-affiliation and more flexible, less exclusive religious belief systems. OUCI

2. Spiritual Health & Well-Being Scales

  • The “College Students’ Spiritual Health Scale (CSSHS)” was developed to measure spiritual health in dimensions like life meaning, interpersonal relationships, self-intrinsic exploration, emotional management, spiritual well-being, etc. In that study, the impact of internet technology was assessed relative to spiritual health, highlighting how certain aspects (e.g., life meaning, emotion management) can suffer when technology use becomes excessive or mismanaged. ACM Digital Library

3. Protective Role of Spiritual Intelligence

  • Spiritual Intelligence (SI) (which includes values, meaning, purpose) has been found to have a buffering (protective) effect against “technostress” especially in ethical work climates. In short, people with higher SI fare better psychologically when using technology heavily, because they can find or maintain meaning, preserve a sense of self, and set boundaries. arXiv

Mixed Effects & Context Dependence

It’s not all negative, and outcomes depend greatly on how technology is used, in what amount, with what purpose, and individual differences (age, personality, socio-economic status, spiritual orientation, etc.).

  • Positive psychological outcomes: Some digital interventions improved mental health during COVID-19. BioMed Central
  • Emotion regulation tools: Some apps and digital programs are aimed specifically at improving emotional regulation skills, which can help people cope with stress, anxiety, and depression. Frontiers
  • Well-being correlates with digital self-management: In a study of higher education students in a technical university, effective digital well-being (managing tech use, balancing offline & online life) strongly correlated with better psychological well-being. MDPI

Key Themes: Why and How These Effects Arise

From the research, several mechanisms or underlying themes keep appearing:

  1. Distraction, Fragmentation & Overload
    Constant notifications, multitasking, shifting attention erode deep focus, reduce capacity for reflection, hurt memory and emotional processing.
  2. Sleep Disruption
    Screen exposure (especially blue light), late-night use, disturbed sleep cycles → poorer emotional regulation, anxiety, mood disorders. Children and adolescents are particularly vulnerable.
  3. Social Comparison and Isolation
    Social media can foster comparison, envy, fear of missing out. Shallow connections can replace deeper ones. Technology can both connect and isolate.
  4. Boundary Erosion
    Work/home blur (remote work), always-on availability. Difficulty unplugging. Increased expectations of immediate responses.
  5. Identity & Meaning
    Rapid cultural change, exposure to many ideas, belief systems, communities. For some people this expands meaning; for others it can create confusion or loss of stable identity.
  6. Addictive Use & Compulsion
    Not just the amount of tech use, but how compulsive or addictive the usage becomes, which affects mental and emotional well-being.
  7. Spiritual Disconnection or Transformation
    Some traditional rituals/practices rely on physical presence, embodiment, nature or silence; technology may substitute or compete with these, sometimes weakening the sense of sacred, sometimes transforming it.

Research Limitations & Gaps

  • Many studies are cross-sectional (snapshot) rather than longitudinal, so causality is hard to establish.
  • Varied definitions: what counts as “overuse,” “spiritual health,” etc., differ between studies.
  • Cultural context matters a lot; what is true in one country/society may differ elsewhere.
  • Younger populations often studied; less is known about older adults, marginalized populations.
  • Spiritual dimensions less well quantified, and “spiritual health” is often vague or tied to religious practice rather than broader meaning/purpose.

Practical Implications: What Can Be Done

Here are strategies, recommendations based on what the research suggests:

AreaStrategy / Recommendation
For IndividualsPractice mindful use of technology (set times, turn off notifications, digital detox); engage in offline restorative activities (nature, exercise, face-to-face interactions). Cultivate spiritual practices if meaningful (meditation, reflection, religious rituals) whether physical or digital. Reflect on purpose/values.
For Parents & EducatorsSupervise and guide children’s tech use; teach emotional regulation; encourage social skills and offline communication; help children and teens balance screen time with meaningful non-digital play or community.
For Organizations and WorkplacesCreate ethical and healthy work environments; limit expectations of immediate response; promote “digital well-being”; ensure boundaries between work and personal time; possibly support spiritual well-being (value, meaning) as part of holistic worker health.
For Designers / Tech CompaniesDesign with emotional health in mind: reduce addictive features, support rest, promote meaningful connection, respect privacy, avoid overly intrusive notifications, build tools for reflection and self-regulation.
For Policy / SocietyEncourage public awareness of digital well-being; include tech usage in mental health guidelines; possibly regulate aspects of social media / online platforms to protect against addictive design; support research into long-term effects, especially across cultures.

Conclusions

Technology is one of the defining features of modern life. It has tremendous potential to amplify human flourishing — connecting us, informing us, healing us. But it also carries emotional costs, psychological risks, and spiritual challenges. The key is not to reject technology wholesale, but to understand its effects, cultivate self-awareness, set wise boundaries, and integrate it in ways that serve our deeper human and spiritual needs.

“Syed Sadiq Ali is a tech columnist, AI-driven digital marketing strategist, and founder of ForAimTech, a blog at the intersection of technology, AI, and digital growth.”

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